The number 17 reminds me what I had to learn years ago about changing my approach, about not “going it alone,” about the value of coaching and support.
As a placekicker in high school, college, and the NFL (sort of), I wore numbers 1, 7, and 17. I had a good run, thanks to who-knows-how-many hours on the practice field, just me and the uprights.
The truth is, I developed my kicking technique entirely on my own, with no instruction or coaching beyond my dad’s constant reminder: “Head down. Follow through.”
Placekicking, like any skill, is a pursuit of perfection. Reliability under pressure comes through endless repetition – in solitude. But success can lead past confidence to a precarious self-sufficiency.
When my shot at playing in the NFL came along, I “blew my leg out” from overwork just two weeks before training camp. I spent the season on the Giants’ inactive roster.
A “comeback” would require a change in technique. The approach that had brought me success for years was out the window. (No more tee.) I tried to adapt as I always had – on my own.
My adjustments fell short. I never played in a game for the Giants or Jets – not even in pre-season. Forty years later, I still wonder how things might have been had I figured out how to change my approach.
That and similar experiences inspired my calling to serve as a coach. I’ve learned from many mentors, outstanding leaders in schools, law, business, and Christian ministry.
I’ve been blessed with countless opportunities to coach others. I look forward to many more.
I also wore 17 as a high school baseball coach. Here, for example, is our team in 1984, the Brookstone Cougars, Columbus, GA.
I especially loved throwing BP, helping each hitter figure out his own approach. I had learned from veteran baseball coaches what to look for and how to give feedback that helps the hitter find his swing – basic performance psychology. That role sums up what I do now as a life coach.
And here’s one more fun little 17 thing. In our weekly prayer fellowship we heard that it usually takes numerous contacts with the Gospel before a person will receive its Truth. Each of us is called to do our part in presenting the Truth in word and deed – and the Holy Spirit will complete the work. We never know how many contacts it will take, we simply speak up and be present when we can.
“Did the pastor say how many contacts it typically takes?” The reply: 17. Okay, that number may not be precise or verifiable, but the nudge is clear: Be available, be that contact, one more bit of support in God’s plan for someone else’s life.
Life Coach 17 